My experience !!!

Sufferings,pain,sorrow etc negative emotions and feelings are best teachers.Its also true that these are just state of mind,we feel sad because we allow such thoughts and feelings to make room in our "mann".Such things doesnt exist in real.Whatever be the cirsumstances and incidents,we must follow that we are born to be in peace and bliss always.Its our negative aspect of personality that we get caught by all kind of negative energies.Actually every one , every thing is divine.We must learn to tap that divinity in ourself through out life so that we can lead ours lives wisely and also influence world in which we are living in a positive way.No one is bad , stop looking for mistakes and negative things in others.Its always me who is responsible.I am happy because of myself,I am in trouble and sorrow because of myself.Its foolishness to consider oneself quite learned and wise.Even after living whole life we cant become wise perfectly.We never know whats that limit.Our aim should be to discover true self , to discover and harness that "divinty" that "soul" that positive,blissful "energy",that "atman" in us.Thats the only truth, thats only correct,thats only pure,thats only wise thing.Even after knowing this fact , its not easy to stuck to it and follow it through out life by always keeping this in mind.Because our negative tendencies are very powerful.Our body related "vikaras" are very much powerful.The impact of wordly things and feelings is much much powerful.Still we must try to stick to this truth by conscious remembrance and meditation always.If we feel negative for anything or any person be it related to me or to other person actually its me only who is harming myself.With negative emotion and feeling be it of any kind and related to anything we can never reach to success and that glory which we deserve by birth.which is our right as a divine soul.So we must try to be always in peace with self and that is possible only by realising that divinity in/of oneself.Nothing is bad,nothing is negative,nothing is wrong thats what we must know always.
God Bless All...
Ashutosh Kaushik

Learn to forgive!!

To forgive is to give correction. When there is forgiveness, the harm of the mistake is forgotten. The mistake itself is remembered only to the extent that the correction is to be given. So there are no negative feelings expressed even while giving correction. And the words that are used are few but prove to be very effective. When we learn the art of forgiving we are able to be free from the burden of negative and waste thinking. So there is never any difficulty in giving correction when necessary. The mind is free from the attitudes of the past and it creates harmony in relationships even if the opinions or personalities don't match.

Very true yet undisclosed !!

"Wow...that's beautiful!" Is either a cry or a thought when faced with the mountain sunset, a spectacular view or a well formed man or woman. But where is the beauty, where is the appreciation of beauty, where is the ability to discern beauty? It is within our own consciousness. For the essence of who and what we are is beauty itself. The essence of beauty is not found in the body, a face or a mountain - they only stir the essence of beauty within our own spirit. And that beauty is not only something we taste within ourselves, but it emerges in our character as virtue, and in our life as care. For what is virtue, but love in action. The next time you say, "That's beautiful!" know that you speak of yourself, and it is you who are beautiful. Always were, always will be.

As you sow so you reap!!!!

If we plant a positive, clean seed of thoughts and concentrate on it, we give it energy, like the sun gives to a seed in the earth. And as the seed in the earth awakens, stirs and begins to grow, the thoughts on which we concentrate awaken, stir and begin to grow. So let us sow positive thoughts. Each morning before we begin the journey of the day let us sit still, in silence, and sow the seed of peace. Peace is harmony and balance. Peace is - freedom from the burden of negativity and wastefulness. Let peace find its home within us. Peace is our original strength, our eternal tranquility of being.

This is what I feel.

Life is beautiful,it becomes more beautiful if we learn to enjoy it through good deeds!! now its a big question-what is "good"? I am unable to answer it ,because the definition of good veries for person to person , both "definition" and "quantity" varies infact from person to person and accordingly varies the satisfaction and fullfilment in one's life.Now it may sound nonsense or uninteresting to many, no surprise, as to see the light outside you need to have required cells in your ratina, so to feel what I said above and what I mean , one needs to have atleast a bit of it already present in one's "mann".
God Bless All.
Ashutosh Kaushik.

Have will for continuous spriritual growth.

There is benefit for you in every situation. If, that is, you know how to look for it. The idea behind steady spiritual progress is to see every circumstance and situation (particularly those that challenge you) as a tailor-made lesson in your personal plan for self- development. For example, in a situation where hurtful or angry words were exchanged, why not see it as the chance either to perceive things about your own character which need changing or to rehearse some virtue or quality that you need to put into practice more often? Actually, we should be grateful for the opportunity to evaluate ourselves. In this way you can transform anything into a constructive lesson. Never think that you've learned enough and now can stop. You should love it when people try to correct you or give you advice. It keeps you alert and gives you plenty of opportunity to put your truth into practice. It's a sign of great danger to be unable to accept criticism and instead use your understanding to criticise others.Realise deeply the significance of every moment, and your spiritual progress will be assured.

Learn to live

The one who has the aim to be perfect is the one who learns from obstacles. The higher the aim, the more the obstacles that comes one's way. Just as a perfect idol is one that has been chiseled a great deal, each obstacle comes to remove some or the other defect from within. The one, who understands this little secret, is able to use each obstacle as a beautiful learning for growth, and a chance to express the best qualities from within. When we are committed to bringing out our inner perfection, we are never deterred by the temporary situations that come our way. We move on with confidence, taking time to look within and recognize the hidden potential within us. We are able to get closer and closer to the perfection that we always seek.